What about asking, "was I impressive?" By impressive I mean, did I do the right thing, the thing that resonates as sustainable, and kind? Am I proud of the little things I do that barely anyone notices? Being kind to ones self, compassionate, patient, considering others... Did i make a positive impression on everyone that I interfaced with? Did I impress them with something that will enhance the rest of their day or perhaps the rest of their life? Making an impression can be a new standard for reflecting upon the day.